Comments on: Fuck 4-year olds http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/ Sat, 22 Nov 2008 00:00:50 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: Queen of Spain http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-64123 Queen of Spain Thu, 06 Nov 2008 23:23:09 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-64123 Dear totally disgusted- you've never had a single bad day with your kid? ever? I've never once laid even a feather on my child and he's more loved than anything in the world. Be disgusted all you like but understand that parent blogs are a place to vent. They are place to scream at the top of your lungs when you can't scream at the kid. I even detail in that post (which I am now laughing at because I remember his hitting phase with laughs now) that 'but no.' because instead I researched and read books on the matter. So get a grip and learn about blogs, clearly you don't know or understand how/why they are even around. Dear totally disgusted- you’ve never had a single bad day with your kid? ever? I’ve never once laid even a feather on my child and he’s more loved than anything in the world. Be disgusted all you like but understand that parent blogs are a place to vent. They are place to scream at the top of your lungs when you can’t scream at the kid. I even detail in that post (which I am now laughing at because I remember his hitting phase with laughs now) that ‘but no.’ because instead I researched and read books on the matter.

So get a grip and learn about blogs, clearly you don’t know or understand how/why they are even around.

]]> By: Totally Disgusted http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-64122 Totally Disgusted Thu, 06 Nov 2008 22:51:27 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-64122 After reading your blog I fiind myself very concerned for the safety of your child. A blog like this where I live would get Child Services attention and they would most certainly investigate the parent. Thoughts are the first steps to actions. You should be ashamed of yourself. I too am a parent of one of "THOSE" kids. He came to us as a foster child and we opened our hearts and our home to him. I couldn't love him more if he were my own. He has been a constant struggle to deal with from the time he was old enough to give us hell, but I have never once had thoughts of killing him! Maybe you should have thought about educating yourself before you had a child. What did you expect? Maybe you should have gotten a robot. I strongly suggest seeking medical attention for what is obviously something very wrong with your brain. After reading your blog I fiind myself very concerned for the safety of your child. A blog like this where I live would get Child Services attention and they would most certainly investigate the parent. Thoughts are the first steps to actions. You should be ashamed of yourself.
I too am a parent of one of “THOSE” kids. He came to us as a foster child and we opened our hearts and our home to him. I couldn’t love him more if he were my own. He has been a constant struggle to deal with from the time he was old enough to give us hell, but I have never once had thoughts of killing him!
Maybe you should have thought about educating yourself before you had a child. What did you expect? Maybe you should have gotten a robot.
I strongly suggest seeking medical attention for what is obviously something very wrong with your brain.

]]> By: mary http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-31907 mary Sun, 13 May 2007 11:56:39 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-31907 Our eldest would escalate till I'd had enough of her abusive behavior and then as a last resort I'd spank her. She'd settle right down after that. She is still a drama queen (presently a bridzilla) and she still escalates poor behavior until told in uncertain terms that I've had enough and won't tolerate anymore. I guess kids of all ages need limites. m Our eldest would escalate till I’d had enough of her abusive behavior and then as a last resort I’d spank her. She’d settle right down after that.
She is still a drama queen (presently a bridzilla)
and she still escalates poor behavior until told in uncertain terms that I’ve had enough and won’t tolerate anymore. I guess kids of all ages need limites.
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]]> By: crunchycarpets http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30388 crunchycarpets Tue, 08 May 2007 17:29:36 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30388 Keeerist...I have been frankly afraid to detail my trials with Adam..fucking four and turning frightful five. Everything is fight. He threatens me with no snuggles or hitting. He tries to bribe me. He thinks I am stupid and cannot see or hear him tormenting his sister. I have been told that he hates me, doesn't love me isn't is friend...etc...all for saying it is bedtime. Keeerist…I have been frankly afraid to detail my trials with Adam..fucking four and turning frightful five.

Everything is fight. He threatens me with no snuggles or hitting. He tries to bribe me.
He thinks I am stupid and cannot see or hear him tormenting his sister.

I have been told that he hates me, doesn’t love me isn’t is friend…etc…all for saying it is bedtime.

]]> By: Leah http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30366 Leah Tue, 08 May 2007 15:31:57 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30366 You are lucky, mine was a biter. Best of luck to you. You are lucky, mine was a biter. Best of luck to you.

]]> By: Anne http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30309 Anne Tue, 08 May 2007 11:35:15 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30309 My son was never that bad, now my daughter OMG oh the tantrums, oh the fits, and those were just mine. My son was never that bad, now my daughter OMG oh the tantrums, oh the fits, and those were just mine.

]]> By: Karen http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30051 Karen Mon, 07 May 2007 14:48:47 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30051 Just keep drinking. It works for me. :) Just keep drinking. It works for me. :)

]]> By: Dana http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30046 Dana Mon, 07 May 2007 14:38:29 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-30046 This is something I need help with, too. Discipline. I can't get Dawson to listen to me. I actually spanked him and I feel like an awful mom because of it. It's not exactly the brightest thing I've ever done. In fact it's very weak, but he pushes my buttons that I snapped. And what am I teaching him? Nothing. Ugh. I suck at this. This is something I need help with, too. Discipline. I can’t get Dawson to listen to me. I actually spanked him and I feel like an awful mom because of it.

It’s not exactly the brightest thing I’ve ever done. In fact it’s very weak, but he pushes my buttons that I snapped. And what am I teaching him? Nothing. Ugh. I suck at this.

]]> By: Miz BoheMia http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-29784 Miz BoheMia Sun, 06 May 2007 05:49:10 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-29784 Now THIS is Mummy journalism at its finest, FINEST I TELL YOU! I had to, HAD TO, read this to Loverboy so he could believe me when I constantly tell him that we are not alone! We are not alone when our 4-year-old possessed male little person is handed over by his very exasperated teacher who, in a rushed rant, declares "Here! He gave me hell today, HELL! I asked him to wear his coat because it was raining and he said he didn't want to. I tried to put it on for him and he screamed he didn't want to while he kicked and punched. All day he has been defying me. All the other kids were drawing as told but him? Noooo. He would have none of it and when I asked him to please work he ripped his sheet to shreds. When I raised my voice at him he raised his even higher and told me he was angry with me and that I should not use that tone of voice with him." and just as the frazzled teacher finished up what she was saying by begging us to please "have a talk" with him, he felt the need to finish her off and yelled "I am NOT coming to school tomorrow with YOU!" and stormed off... Yes, we are not alone... we are not alone when our threats, that ARE followed through on are not taken seriously as the boy shows his disdain for the parental units by laughing away... throwing that head back does not help in making him NOT appear eeeevil... and by repeatedly kicking the door when in timeout... No, we are not alone. I am sorry amiga mia! But MAN did I laugh! *sigh* Advice? You know, I just read this FABOO book that has nothing to do with childrearing, that has a corny title, a book a close and dear friend sent me that I found fenomenal and that is and will be transforming... read it... READ IT!... 'Tis called "Excuse Me, Your LIFE is Waiting"... maybe that way I can get y'all to SF with me! WOOH! And for a bit of shameless promotion... I am finally back! Besos! I missed you! Now THIS is Mummy journalism at its finest, FINEST I TELL YOU! I had to, HAD TO, read this to Loverboy so he could believe me when I constantly tell him that we are not alone!

We are not alone when our 4-year-old possessed male little person is handed over by his very exasperated teacher who, in a rushed rant, declares “Here! He gave me hell today, HELL! I asked him to wear his coat because it was raining and he said he didn’t want to. I tried to put it on for him and he screamed he didn’t want to while he kicked and punched. All day he has been defying me. All the other kids were drawing as told but him? Noooo. He would have none of it and when I asked him to please work he ripped his sheet to shreds. When I raised my voice at him he raised his even higher and told me he was angry with me and that I should not use that tone of voice with him.” and just as the frazzled teacher finished up what she was saying by begging us to please “have a talk” with him, he felt the need to finish her off and yelled “I am NOT coming to school tomorrow with YOU!” and stormed off…

Yes, we are not alone… we are not alone when our threats, that ARE followed through on are not taken seriously as the boy shows his disdain for the parental units by laughing away… throwing that head back does not help in making him NOT appear eeeevil… and by repeatedly kicking the door when in timeout…

No, we are not alone.

I am sorry amiga mia! But MAN did I laugh! *sigh*

Advice? You know, I just read this FABOO book that has nothing to do with childrearing, that has a corny title, a book a close and dear friend sent me that I found fenomenal and that is and will be transforming… read it… READ IT!… ‘Tis called “Excuse Me, Your LIFE is Waiting”… maybe that way I can get y’all to SF with me! WOOH!

And for a bit of shameless promotion… I am finally back!

Besos! I missed you!

]]> By: Mom2Many http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-29764 Mom2Many Sun, 06 May 2007 03:06:11 +0000 http://queenofspainblog.com/2007/05/04/fuck-4-year-olds/#comment-29764 I have a son who is bipolar and ODD, and LOVE the books "1-2-3 Magic" and "The Explosive Child" I have used the "Magic" book on several foster kids....hope it helps!! I have a son who is bipolar and ODD, and LOVE the books “1-2-3 Magic” and “The Explosive Child”

I have used the “Magic” book on several foster kids….hope it helps!!

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