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Complacency, Security, And 9-11

cross posted at BlogHer.com

On September 11, 2001 I was sitting under the two tallest buildings in Los Angeles.

On purpose.

I was sent there as events unfolded by my news director at KFWB to “wait and see if something happens in LA.”

As we all know, nothing did. However, across the country everyone was on edge. That’s probably an understatement as you remember that day. We were over the edge.

As Nicole at Pink & Posh remembers,

“It was just an out pour of sadness and events and terror. Terror. She made it home safely with only scars on her feet because she couldn’t walk in her pumps any more and decided that being barefoot was a better option. Anything seemed like a better option that day.”

So my job at the time, as a reporter, was to figure out what happens next. As the country was working to grieve and to heal, I was working to find out how and if something like this could happen again. Where was the US vulnerable and what did we need to do to protect ourselves?

It was quickly determined the nation’s critical infrastructure: our ports, our water supply, our communications, electricity…all those things could be hit and our country could be crippled.

I set out to investigate two of these infrastructures: ports and water supply. To say the results were astounding would be yet another understatement. I’m not sure, at that point in time, having just been hit with the 9-11 attacks, we could have felt more vulnerable…but what I found made me hesitate to tell the public just how easily this could all happen again.

At the ports of Los Angeles and Long Beach, which are our nation’s busiest and 2nd busiest ports, respectively, I could access tankers, major bridges, tank farms, and was unchallenged for hours as I slipped through holes in fences, unlocked gates, and from personal water craft. What’s important to note is the amount of the nation’s economy dependent on this port, and how commerce west of the Mississippi would halt if anything were to happen on these precious docks.

At LA’s largest aqueduct, I pulled a lock off a gate that was wide open, which I gave as a souvenir to my news director. No one stopped me. No one was around. No one seemed to care. LA’s water supply was wide open and waiting for an attack. I couldn’t even find a security guard.

I then sat down with Mayor Hahn and told him of my findings. He was as stoic as a politician can be in that situation, however just as deeply disturbed as I.

Since then, and I am proud to say as a direct result, millions upon millions of dollars have been spent in Los Angeles to beef up security. This went on as well across the country. From increased patrols (including aerial here in LA) to reinforced gates and cameras, to sophisticated security procedures, the critical infrastructure of this nation was shored up. And shored up fast.

But where are we now? So many years later and already seemingly forgetting about these threats. As it turns out, the Ports here in LA now tout their security on their website.

The water supply, after being declared secure on a national level, remains on high alert. As I drive by today you can still see the dozens of police cars, gates, and uniforms surrounding it’s perimeter.

Secretary of Homeland Security Janet Napolitano tells the Washington Post as a nation, they are doing everything possible to “reduce the risks” but individual Americans need to be involved as well:

“Well, probably not as prepared as we could be, and that is why this month, which just happens to be National Preparedness Month, we are really sending out the message about shared responsibility for individuals, it’s, have a plan; make a kit; get some of your training updated, or get some training if you haven’t had any before; go to ready.gov, which is our website, which has some pretty straightforward things that individuals and families can do.”

Napolitano also touches on he quadrennial Homeland Security Review currently underway and due in December:

“I think it will probably show that, for a young department, we have come a long way, but we have a ways to go. We have a ways to go in terms of information sharing, partnerships with state and local law enforcement–both of those are big priorities for us.

I think we have some things that we can do better in terms of explaining to the American people why some things are the way they are, particularly, for example, in the travel environment.”

But even with reassurances from the government they are doing everything possible, concern still exists. Just today the Coast Guard was involved in an incident being labeled as a “miscommunication” near the nation’s capital. CNN reports:

“The U.S. Coast Guard promised a ‘thorough review’ after a training incident Friday along the Potomac River briefly triggered concerns about the security of President Obama on the eighth anniversary of the September 11 attacks.

Federal agency emergency operations centers were not aware of or notified about the exercise on the Potomac, and they began implementing response procedures, a federal source said.

Even the police department’s Harbor Patrol, which is responsible for patrolling the river, was not notified, law enforcement sources in Washington said.”

And as of 2006 only 5.6% of the containers coming through ports in the US are inspected as they enter the US.

Not very reassuring.

As Barbara at Mommylife.net writes,

“Today I feel sad that our country seems to have forgotten that liberty requires vigilance – and gratitude for our country.”

Vigilance is important, and considering today’s stark reminders on news and all around us, perhaps we will remain as such.

Contributing Editor Erin Kotecki Vest also blogs at Queen of Spain blog

Yes, They Are Having Candy for Dinner- So What Of It?

Cross posted at BlogHer.com

My kids ate popsicles, orange and red to be exact, for breakfast this morning.

Today, about an hour before dinner, they asked for Twinkies while I was cooking. I said “sure, go for it.”

I’m a slacker Mom when it comes to food and I don’t really care who knows it. Ok that’s not entirely true. I care that my husband knows it, because it horrifies him. In fact, I think he stuffs them full of nothing but veggies and fruit on the weekend just to make up for my week filled with junk and meals that aren’t really meals.

I think appetizers are meals. I’m also ok with with those meals that start with ‘Happy’ … I know, I know.

But total truth be told, despite mornings of sugary cereal and lunches that may or may not end in ‘able’ they also eat well. My kids will eat sushi. They eat mussels and clams and slimy things a lot of other kids won’t touch. They will try anything and everything in the name of ‘adventure’ and that makes me proud.

Why? Because I try very hard not to make food an ‘issue.’ They aren’t those kids in the corner who’s only ever had one piece of candy and FREAKS OUT with excitement at a birthday party. Having an ice cream is a ‘treat’ but it isn’t the be all and end all of their day.

They also tend to eat in front of the tv. More than a lot. *gasp*. But hey, even Mocha Momma’s family agrees those sit down dinners aren’t all they are cracked up to be:

Don’t eat with your mouth full of food.

Jesus would think that eating with a mouthful is gross.

Yeah, what would Jesus do with a mouthful of food?

Jesus wouldn’t be mad about that.

No! Jesus would DO that!

Jesus wouldn’t eat with his mouthful. Can’t you hear his mother right now? “Jesus! Close your mouth!”

I think Jesus would want ice cream. Maybe a McFlurry.

For dessert? Oh, for sure. Jesus was all about the McFlurry.

You know, The Last Supper would have required some dessert. Can you imagine that Passover meal? I mean, seriously. Bland, boring food.

What did they eat at The Last Supper?

Unleavened bread. Bitter herbs. All that stuff with cut up apples and raisins. Right? Yuck. Jesus would need a McFlurry to wash away that grossness.”

I mean, there are even moms playing games at the dinner table. So I don’t feel so bad. Location isn’t everything. But I will admit nutrition is important.

My son will choose a mango over a sucker 50% of the time. My daughter eats broccoli raw, straight out of the garden.

But they both also had pizza rolls and twizzlers for lunch. Then again, we had a dinner of whole wheat pasta and turkey meatballs.

It’s all about balance. And moderation. And making food fun and NON serious.

One of my favorite dinner time , light hearted stories comes from Chris at Notes from the Trenches:

“Me: So if you could only have five foods for the rest of your life, what would they be?

Ice cream!
Ice cream!
Candy!
Pancakes!

But, wait a minute, if we had the ingredients tomake those foods couldn’t we make them into different foods instead?

No.

But why?

Because it is my rules and I say no. Only five already prepared foods.

But how would we get them?

Sheesh, I don’t know. They would fall from the sky like manna, okay?

But…

Just go with it, ok?

Soda!
Candy!
CANDY!
Gum!
LOTS OF GUM!!!

Okay, but technically those aren’t foods.

Spaghetti and meatballs.
NY Strip Steak, medium.

Now we are talking.

10 yr old: Brussel Sprouts.

At which point we all turn to look at him, the room falls silent.

Who are you? I ask.

We all laugh.

Do you even like brussel sprouts? someone asks over the laughter.

No. Not really.

The laughter bursts out of all of us”

Laughter at meal time. I love that,and sometimes it doesn’t matter what we’re eating be they popsicles or brussel sprouts.

Contributing Editor Erin Kotecki Vest also blogs at Queen of Spain blog, where her children are sticky faced and malnourished from too many pieces of cake for breakfast.

We Can’t Afford to Wait

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6-year old Gets Some. Mom Mortified. News at 11

My 6-year old got his first piece of ass today.

Jack's first Gar burger

Yes, my baby boy thought it was appropriate to swim underwater right on over to Megan and pinch her butt.

That’s right, an adult he’s never met. A guest in my home. And my son thinks its just fine to grab her ass.

I blame his father.

Alright not really, but I do blame the casual …ummm…atmosphere at our home. My son thought it was totally fine to pinch Megan’s ass because he’s pinched mine. And his Dad has pinched mine. And when we’re swimming in the pool they are the ‘sharks’ and they come get Mom. They get me by going underwater and pinching my butt. I squeal, they laugh…and life goes on.

Never in my wildest dreams did it occur to me my little guy would think this was fine to do this to other people.

Imagine, if you will, being a guest in my home and swimming in my pool. Suddenly, out of nowhere, you feel a pinch on your ass and turn to find a 1st grader underwater by your butt.

Of course I’d like to say, as the Mom, I handled the situation well. But as it turns out just moments before said pinching, I had been stung by a bee and was far from able to give the situation the attention it deserved.

Megan was a gracious guest and laughed it off…but what else could she do? My son had just got himself some and giggled  about it. What sort of hedonistic home had she brought herself and her children to?

Mine.

Parenting fail.

But now he can say he’s grabbed Megan’s butt.

About that whole Presidential Address Thing..

I think this is all I am going to say about it…that and …you people are crazy

h/t Nordette

Where There is Smoke…

…but we haven’t killed each other yet. That’s saying something for having been stuck inside since I was in the hospital.

Sigh