It’s Monday

It's that kind of day

There is a fire raging around us. We had fleas, a fly infestation, and this morning our office ceiling leaked on us.

I give up.

Two Lines To Ruin My Day

It started with my son.

“Well Mom, girls make me kind of tingly.”

Then moved on to my daughter as we watched yet another Brooke Sheilds commercial.

“Mom, she’s prettier than us.”

And I died a bit inside.

Time for a walk

BlogHer community keynote

My favorite part of BlogHer Con- go watch, you won’t regret it

Raising a Geek Boy

My little geek in training

Sometimes I worry that my husband and I are a bit too geeky, and that’s leading to uberGeeky kids. Why worry, you ask? Because I know how this world operates. And how it treats the boy who prefers watching the Hawking Paradox over Monday Night Football.

How it treats the boy uninterested in signing up for t-ball but can’t wait for invention camp.

How it sees the sensitive male hell-bent on saving a tiny caterpillar over squishing it into the ground.

But I’m proud. I love the people my children are turning into. I just wish I could stop the worry.

BFF

Sick at home and on the couch

I got a text message from my husband this weekend that read, “in the front yard. kids are hugging each other.”

My kids are best friends. Not just ‘she’s my sister’ or ‘he’s my brother’ best friends, but…truly the best of friends.

They play with each other, willingly, all day and rarely do they argue. Sure they are getting on each other more than they used to…but all day long I hear things like ‘Come here! Come quick! Bowser is going to get Princess Peach and you have to be Mario and save her!’ and then a ‘I’m coming! I love this game!’

In fact in that photo above…they are on the couch, sick, and voluntarily snuggling as they play a game. VOLUNTARILY.

Sigh. I’m so freaking lucky.

For My Mom

See… if I just pull up my shirt and keep my hair down, no one will see. We tested it in a tank top too…barely showing. I swear.

Good night

Girly Girl

I don’t think I pushed her that way. I don’t think I encouraged make up and dresses and changing clothes 10 times a day. I don’t obsess about matching or cute shoes.

Or do I?

At least she put on the Wonder Woman arm band for good measure.

How Hala dressed herself for dinner

Obama: Pushing Health Care Reform or Patronizing?

crossposted at BlogHer.com

President Barack Obama fired up his base today…or was he just patting us on the head?

The Democratic National Committee’s Organizing for America held a conference (via email, phone, web video and in person) with volunteers and supporters of the Obama Administration and campaign to rally for health care reform. Marlene H. Phillips writes at the Huffington Post,

“On Thursday afternoon, when President Barack Obama entered a room of 50 volunteers, with thousands watching via webcast, he was greeted with the campaign cry of ‘Yes We Can.’

The President smiled, then removed his jacket and rolled up his sleeves. The symbolism was clear; that catchy phrase helped get us here, but now we need to work for it.”

And it felt like a rally, which was a welcome change in the national battle over reform. But during the 90 or so minutes supporters hooted and hollered and discussed health care, one line from the President stood out to me more than any other:

“…We’re going to get this done. One way, or another.”

One way or another…which I can take to mean as “with our without the public option” OR “with or without those pesky Republicans.”

Jake Tapper and Sunlen Miller took the latter from it, “Before a crowd of loyal Democrats this afternoon, President Obama said his party would pass health care reform with or without Republicans.”

But after all this time and all this compromise and effort to get the GOP on board, color me skeptical. When I heard the President speaking of getting it done “one way or another” I immediately thought “by giving up more to make the Blue Dog Dems and the Right happy…”

But perhaps, just perhaps, those lefty brethren of mine made enough noise this past week to make sure the White House and Dems stayed on track with their message and keeping the public option. Digby writes,

“The bottom line is that, until progressives rallied behind the public option this week, the air was out of the balloon. The base of supporters are energizing this debate, and they will reward any lawmaker that reflects their values and actually seeks to follow through on their promises. They now represent the last, best hope for real health care reform. And they won’t cotton to being kicked around, dragged through the mud, or played as pawns any longer. 2012 lies in the balance.”

If the air was out of the balloon is was certainly inflated again today, as twitter, facebook, and blogs buzzed with “YES WE CAN!” and chants of “FIRED UP! READY TO GO!”

I remarked on BlogHer Chatter and Twitter while watching the OFA event that this is exactly what some of us advised White House Senior Advisor Valerie Jarrett to do to get health care reform front and center again in the news: make it like the campaign, get the grassroots moving. Perhaps, just perhaps, she listened.

Contributing Editor Erin Kotecki Vest also blogs at Queen of Spain blog
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