BFF

Sick at home and on the couch

I got a text message from my husband this weekend that read, “in the front yard. kids are hugging each other.”

My kids are best friends. Not just ‘she’s my sister’ or ‘he’s my brother’ best friends, but…truly the best of friends.

They play with each other, willingly, all day and rarely do they argue. Sure they are getting on each other more than they used to…but all day long I hear things like ‘Come here! Come quick! Bowser is going to get Princess Peach and you have to be Mario and save her!’ and then a ‘I’m coming! I love this game!’

In fact in that photo above…they are on the couch, sick, and voluntarily snuggling as they play a game. VOLUNTARILY.

Sigh. I’m so freaking lucky.

For My Mom

See… if I just pull up my shirt and keep my hair down, no one will see. We tested it in a tank top too…barely showing. I swear.

Good night

Girly Girl

I don’t think I pushed her that way. I don’t think I encouraged make up and dresses and changing clothes 10 times a day. I don’t obsess about matching or cute shoes.

Or do I?

At least she put on the Wonder Woman arm band for good measure.

How Hala dressed herself for dinner

Obama: Pushing Health Care Reform or Patronizing?

crossposted at BlogHer.com

President Barack Obama fired up his base today…or was he just patting us on the head?

The Democratic National Committee’s Organizing for America held a conference (via email, phone, web video and in person) with volunteers and supporters of the Obama Administration and campaign to rally for health care reform. Marlene H. Phillips writes at the Huffington Post,

“On Thursday afternoon, when President Barack Obama entered a room of 50 volunteers, with thousands watching via webcast, he was greeted with the campaign cry of ‘Yes We Can.’

The President smiled, then removed his jacket and rolled up his sleeves. The symbolism was clear; that catchy phrase helped get us here, but now we need to work for it.”

And it felt like a rally, which was a welcome change in the national battle over reform. But during the 90 or so minutes supporters hooted and hollered and discussed health care, one line from the President stood out to me more than any other:

“…We’re going to get this done. One way, or another.”

One way or another…which I can take to mean as “with our without the public option” OR “with or without those pesky Republicans.”

Jake Tapper and Sunlen Miller took the latter from it, “Before a crowd of loyal Democrats this afternoon, President Obama said his party would pass health care reform with or without Republicans.”

But after all this time and all this compromise and effort to get the GOP on board, color me skeptical. When I heard the President speaking of getting it done “one way or another” I immediately thought “by giving up more to make the Blue Dog Dems and the Right happy…”

But perhaps, just perhaps, those lefty brethren of mine made enough noise this past week to make sure the White House and Dems stayed on track with their message and keeping the public option. Digby writes,

“The bottom line is that, until progressives rallied behind the public option this week, the air was out of the balloon. The base of supporters are energizing this debate, and they will reward any lawmaker that reflects their values and actually seeks to follow through on their promises. They now represent the last, best hope for real health care reform. And they won’t cotton to being kicked around, dragged through the mud, or played as pawns any longer. 2012 lies in the balance.”

If the air was out of the balloon is was certainly inflated again today, as twitter, facebook, and blogs buzzed with “YES WE CAN!” and chants of “FIRED UP! READY TO GO!”

I remarked on BlogHer Chatter and Twitter while watching the OFA event that this is exactly what some of us advised White House Senior Advisor Valerie Jarrett to do to get health care reform front and center again in the news: make it like the campaign, get the grassroots moving. Perhaps, just perhaps, she listened.

Contributing Editor Erin Kotecki Vest also blogs at Queen of Spain blog
BlogHer is non-partisan but our bloggers (including me!) aren’t! See more of our coverage in News & Politics.

I’m a Girl Gamer

I just found this interview I did in March at SXSW. Enjoy my geekyhood

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So Today Kinda Sucked

So today kinda sucks

I underwent two tests at UCLA today. They both sucked pretty hard core and one continues to suck, as you can tell by the photo above.

I’ll talk more about them later this week here and at BlogHer…right now I just want to eat some soup and cry.

Moms Come Home

I had to head to UCLA today for a test that involved me eating an egg salad sandwich sprinkled with radiation.

It was disgusting.

But that wasn’t the most interesting part of my day. As it turns out, despite telling the kids 40 times I was *only* going to the doctor and would be back…they were afraid I would be hospitalized again and NOT come home.

Mom not coming home is scary. Mom not coming home makes small children cry. Mom not coming home means that right now, as I type this, two small bodies are stuck to me like glue.

I have to head back down to UCLA tomorrow for more tests and I am doing my best to reassure them I will be home after they are through…but I’m afraid what the doctors will find and if it will mean another hospital stay.

I’m not sure this house could take it.

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Friday MUST Reads

Some posts to NOT be missed today:

Lisa Stone at BlogHer announces a partnership with OpenCongress.org and the Sunlight Foundation inviting women to talk about health care online.

Stefania, aka CityMama, gets named an honorary Detroiter in my book. She took a tour of a Ford plant in Chicago and left with an amazing story and a heartfelt post.

And please enjoy

The Colbert Report Mon – Thurs 11:30pm / 10:30c
Glenn-Harried Glenn-Lost
www.colbertnation.com
Colbert Report Full Episodes Political Humor Meryl Streep

and

The Daily Show With Jon Stewart Mon – Thurs 11p / 10c
Glenn Beck’s Operation
www.thedailyshow.com
Daily Show
Full Episodes
Political Humor Spinal Tap Performance